A few years ago, an old friend once talked to me about a life experience, and felt that sometimes my life was "dangerous". What he probably meant was that in a certain event or situation, if you didn’t meet someone, say a word, and change your thoughts and behaviors, then the ending may be completely opposite, and you won’t be what you are now.
As soon as he said it, I thought about it, life will indeed encounter many critical points. For example, people can be very confident, but after thinking about some things, they just can’t be confident enough to act immediately; they can be very patient, but they won’t see results for too long, but they can’t be patient enough to continue working forever without complaint or regret; Very decisive, but when some complicated and serious situations are in front of you, you just can’t be decisive enough to make up your mind to make a choice right away... In every field, you will face breakthroughs and retreats, persistence and abandonment, patience and outbreaks, going straight and turning, falling and rising In times of entanglement and distress, I most hope that there will be a trustworthy and capable "expert" to help me overcome difficulties, or give me some advice, so that I can understand and make the right choice.
So, where did this "high man" come from? The circle of friends is a place where "superior people" haunt. Many "superior people" will encourage, correct, improve and achieve each other with you, but they may not stick together all day long. When you are going smoothly, they will look at you from afar, bless you, and keep a distance from you; Pull it gently, and then leave quietly; when encountering various major events, emergencies, and critical points that are difficult to decide, they will put right and wrong, pros and cons, good and evil in the first place, analyze it with you, and wake up with a word The dreamer makes you make the right choice every time. Associating with trusted "superior people" will naturally gain positive energy. They will give advice at the critical point and take you to the top.
In fact, my old friend is generally lucky along the way. One of the important reasons is that he met relatives and friends who are really good to him at various critical points. In real time, he made a quick pull and avoided the dangerous shoals; when the emotions and the situation were about to get out of control, he stepped on the brakes and stopped the loss in time. I always feel that there are not so many accidents or coincidences in life. When any external things enter your life, it means that they have resonated on the same frequency. Birds of a feather flock together. Whether you can meet "superior people" at the critical point also has a lot to do with your own efforts.
The world is so big, there are so many things, and the changes are so fast. When we are all at the critical point, we all hope to get the help of "superior people". And we, will we also be the "superior" that others may encounter when they are at the critical point? Let us start from ourselves, improve our abilities, embrace life with positive thinking, sincerity and friendliness, and be a trustworthy "superior". Make life better.
.jpeg)
