Recently, I started to stay away from online social software. Of course, this "stay away" does not mean that you will never be in contact with various social networks, but requires you to keep a distance from them from now on. As a personal experience, I've found that when you spider yourself on the web every day and make it a habit, some trouble ensues. For example, always feel a kind of intense "critic fatigue", which makes people mentally exhausted quickly.
For me personally, the biggest disadvantage of Weibo is that when I occasionally write a few attractive words and are constantly forwarded, a sense of accomplishment will arise spontaneously; character, even though you're still really nothing - that's something to be wary of. Because self-confidence and self-expansion are completely different. Self-confidence stems from the inner spirit, and self-inflation stems from the misperception of external information. This is a bit like many people often mistake "white and fat" for "healthy", but in fact, there is an essential difference between "fat" and "strong".
I once saw this sentence: when you are proficient in using various online social tools and talking about very popular topics, you are actually outdated, because this world has never been created by those who pursue fashion and like to follow the trend. Those who usually only work hard and seem to have been completely eliminated by the trend are the ones who really create this world and create all kinds of topics in this world.
For example, the Japanese animation master Hayao Miyazaki is very familiar to everyone.
Hayao Miyazaki's old partner for decades, Toshio Suzuki, chairman and producer of Studio Ghibli, once introduced Hayao Miyazaki's daily life in this way - do you know what Hayao Miyazaki eats every day? Toshio Suzuki said that when everyone was discussing food, saying that this restaurant was delicious and that restaurant was like, Miyazaki never tried it once. "What he eats every day, since I've known him for more than 25 years, is a handmade bento made by his wife every day: a full aluminum lunch box. Why is it full? Because those are his two meals. : Divide it into two with chopsticks, eat half at noon and half at night. After 5 minutes, take a 15-minute break after lunch, and then work from 9:00 am to 2:00 am. This is the case every year, every day.”
Hayao Miyazaki has not only been eating his wife's handmade bento for decades, but he is also wary of game consoles, home computers, and the Internet, believing that they are all enemies of animation designers. Emails, for example, upset Miyazaki, and to that end he took the time to conduct a "full investigation" at Studio Ghibli. When he found out that everyone was using e-mail, Miyazaki was surprised and ran to Toshio Suzuki and said, "Suzuki! Everyone is using e-mail, Japanese anime is over!" Guys who are interested in other things can't become a good animation designer.
Miyazaki's thinking makes sense. "I'm willing to give you time to show that I really love you." To measure whether there is true love between men and women, it is not measured by money, but by time. Money can be used over and over again, and it can be earned over and over; but time can only be owned once, and it will never come again. Love someone, no matter how much time is sacrificed for him or her. And whether a person really loves one's work is measured by time; nothing is more attractive than work, and people are more willing to spend all their time in love. That's exactly why Miyazaki is a world-class anime guru.
Of course, not everyone is lucky enough to have a job they love. But it doesn't matter, even if you don't love your current job, you should at least love yourself. The most honest expression of loving oneself is knowing how to effectively use the time that belongs to oneself, which is only once in this life, and how to give time back to oneself quietly and completely in the midst of the hustle and bustle of anxiety.
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