When I was young, the women who watched the village quarrel, the more emotional ones tended to lose very angrily.
In the early years, a judo athlete said that she could finally defeat a strong opponent and win the Olympic championship. One of the best things to do is to "anxious" and "qi" opponents, which caused the opponent to lose his mind and mess up the position...
Keep your reason, that is, keep your strength.
Reason is part of common sense. Gentleness is an attitude that is more advanced and closer to reality.
In a hurried panic, the word "moderate" can comfort the situation: for example, "Xiao Que" is a gentle compromise of middle-aged people to reality, and "Xiao Que mourning" is a mild rebellion of reality by young people.
In particular, young people love funeral culture, not because they like this decadent and negative feeling, but because of the self-deprecating and joking elements contained in it.
The meaning of mildness is that it "buffers" steeply and "relates" anxiety.
The ideal interpersonal relationship is to explore the distance between people who can continue to communicate with each other.
The right measure is gentle.
It is absurdly anti-intellectual to divide people into "good people", "bad people", enemies and friends; people can sometimes only use "cute" and "hate", or "normal" and "abnormal", or "civilized" and "civilized" and "disgusting". Brutal" to divide.
Civilized people or moderate talents do multiple choice questions, while barbarians are "with me, without you". Moderate people have thoughts and attitudes, but they will restrain their emotions. In a healthy society, gentle people are more inspiring.
Why are extreme views and personalities particularly prevalent? Perhaps the main reason is impetuous and emotional.
Reliable people can always give people a sense of trust, always give people the power of gentleness and kindness, and make people feel at ease. Gentle people are better at hugging, giving, and smiling. They are the most assured, peaceful and stable in the world. strength.
The essence of moderation is rationality.
"Rationality" has long been regarded as the highest achievement of mankind. It has always been around us... Moderately and rationally questioning and speculating will be more powerful and valuable.
Once you lose your mind, anyone can disrupt the rhythm of your life.
Liu Yu once said: "Extreme is too tempting. Its certainty and the confidence that certainty brings, its simplicity, and the ease of worry that it brings, its easy identification, and the rapid assembly of its identification. The emotional group of people is really too tempting. From then on, there is no need to drift between different concepts, no need to constantly adjust the direction according to the road conditions, and no need to suffer from self-doubt..."
Moderate, that is, admit your own limitations and inconsistencies. With certainty, it is possible for us to maintain the progress of our thinking. Be wary of any point of view that the white knives go in and the red knives come out, not only because they may be grossly wrong, but also because they will deprive and obliterate people's thinking.
"Extreme voices may not be more marketable, they are just more combative." Even more murderous, crazy, and hostile.
Therefore, "polarization is dangerous, because they can kidnap the entire society".
Liu Yu said: "I have always felt that no shortage of gentle people in the world, is the lack of moderate and strong-willed person, not lack of rational people, is the lack of rational and have a sense of mission."
"In the The rot in the trenches, there are no words of praise, only in the textbooks, death is good. Death on the battlefield is poor, terrible, and smelly. They are just dead."
Such rational words, extreme people Don't watch it.
Extreme personality, extreme viewpoints, disdain, do not look at the truth, what you want is a rush of voices and passions.
What is needed is victory and utilitarianism.
So, "Never argue with an idiot, because bystanders may not be able to tell who is an idiot," Mark Twain said.
Extreme personality and opinions ignited a sea of emotions, creating anxiety, unbelief and hopelessness...
So many people worry that the world will not get better. "Of course, my life will not get better. It is possible that we live not for a better tomorrow, but to avoid the worst tomorrow."
Gentleness also has a fatal weakness: it often manifests as silence or indifference. Silence tends to become an accomplice of evil. Indifference is even more so. Therefore, moderate people should talk more, or the world will be occupied by extreme people.
The harmony part of a song is the most beautiful, and the gentle voice is often called "harmony".
The human body is made up of 206 bones. If you just stack these bones together, you cannot stand up. The key is to have the "intelligence" function of ligaments. This "intelligence" includes: connection, transmission, compatibility...
a" The word "and" is great.
The bones are too hard and fragile, and the ligaments are gentle but powerful. Gentle tends to be more patient because of more conviction.
I used to think I was gentle, but now I find that I am gentle. More and more afraid of the cold, more and more love for the sun, more and more understanding, more and more gentle.
I used to think that I can be salted or sweet, but now I find that I can be more salty, not easy to greasy, sweet and easy to greasy, especially when thinking and talking, always remember to "use salt to taste".
